With This Ring
Wedding rings are probably the most romantic symbols of wedding unity that there are.
From the sparkling promise of everlasting love engagement rings evoke, to the unending circle of eternal commitment that a wedding band is reflective of, these pieces of jewelry are also among some of the oldest and most traditional parts of wedding culture and history.
The wearing of wedding bands by men is a modern revelation. Thought to have become popular during World War II, soldiers wore these rings as a reminder of their loved ones during the separation while serving their country.
Though the style and manner in which they are worn vary greatly, the use of rings as symbols of marriage in cultures across the globe is wide and frequent.
Where you wear your wedding rings and how they are given during the wedding ceremony are usually guided by religious beliefs or geographical location. In the United States, engagement and wedding rings are traditionally worn on the left hand, while some European and Latin cultures dictate that wedding rings be worn on the right hand. Wedding rings are placed on the forefinger of the bride during Jewish ceremonies and in Elizabethan England, they were placed on the thumb during the wedding rites.as also in Italy, during the Renaissance, when ornately decorated engagement rings surfaced.
The wearing of wedding bands by men is a modern revelation. Thought to have become popular during World War II, soldiers wore these rings as a reminder of their loved ones during the separation while serving their country.
Though the style and manner in which they are worn vary greatly, the use of rings as symbols of marriage in cultures across the globe is wide and frequent.
Where you wear your wedding rings and how they are given during the wedding ceremony are usually guided by religious beliefs or geographical location. In the United States, engagement and wedding rings are traditionally worn on the left hand, while some European and Latin cultures dictate that wedding rings be worn on the right hand. Wedding rings are placed on the forefinger of the bride during Jewish ceremonies and in Elizabethan England, they were placed on the thumb during the wedding rites.
Engagement RingsChoosing an engagement ring can be an extremely exciting experience. Some grooms choose to go this road alone, while others may shop for this very special piece of jewelry with a close friend, family member, and sometimes, even the bride. Some basic rules apply whichever route is taken: choose a reputable jeweler; do your research in terms of stones, shapes, and settings; and don’t forget to set a budget for yourself for the purchase.
There are just about as many styles of engagement rings as there are brides. The most intrinsic part of an engagement ring is the stone—it is also the part of the ring that gives it its value as well as its beauty. Modern tradition makes the stone most commonly a diamond, though sapphires, which symbolize fidelity, have the longest history as an engagement ring stone. A blend of diamonds and colored stones can combine for a truly stunning engagement ring.
The style of an engagement ring is often determined by the shape, size, and cut of the stone. Many judge a ring’s worth by the number of carats of the stone, but it is also the cut of the diamond or gem, which brings the stone its fire and sparkle, and the original clarity of the stone that contribute to its overall value. The shape of the stone gives the ring its overall style. There are many shapes and cuts of stone including round solitaire; rectangular radiant cuts; emerald; marquise; oval; and pear to consider. When choosing a stone, go back to the basics: color, clarity, cut, and carat. Popular stone trends include colored diamonds such as those in pink (very rare and expensive—pink sapphires are a more reasonable substitute) and yellow as well as the square princess diamond. Another current favorite style is three-stone rings.
After years of gold reigning supreme, platinum has regained its stature as the most durable and pure of engagement ring settings. White gold is another popular setting. Some contemporary ring styles blend two or more precious metals together in the setting. Antique and retro settings, with elements such as filigreed accents, have come back into style, with rings that may be new but look like family heirlooms that have been passed on from generation to generation.
Wedding BandsOftentimes, a wedding band will be purchased along with the engagement ring as a specially designed set, which is created to be worn exclusively together. In other cases, a wedding band will be chosen to compliment the engagement ring. Sometimes, the couple will choose matching wedding bands. As with engagement rings, there are some basic considerations in choosing the right wedding bands for the two of you.
In addition to making sure the band works well with your engagement ring, you’ll want to consider the style of your bands. Will they have stones or no stones? Will your style be classic, such as one with a simple beaded edge, or more ornate, such as channel-set diamonds? Again, though your engagement ring style will dictate this as well, you’ll have to consider which metal best suits your style: gold, white gold, or platinum. For brides and grooms that work a lot with their hands, the choice of a strong metal will be important in insuring you have a ring that can withstand your work and the test of time.
Many couples choose to have their wedding bands engraved with their wedding date, initials, or a special message. Ask your jeweler whether they will perform this service or for a reliable referral if they do not. Make sure to leave enough time for the engraving so that your bands will be ready and waiting on the day you will exchange your vows.


















