Mothers’ Wedding Attire

The days of the dowdy Mother of the Bride are gone! On the occasion of her child’s wedding, every mother wants to look beautiful and elegant. After the bridal and attendants’ gowns are chosen, the bride should discuss her preferences of lengths, colors and styles with both mothers. Brides may prefer mothers’ dresses to be colors that blend with those of the attendants; or contrast, but do not conflict.

A few rules apply: Mothers’ dresses should never be longer than the bride’s or attendants’ gowns. They should not be more formal or more lavishly decorated than the bride’s gown. Typically, the bride’s mother chooses her gown first, then lets the groom’s mother know the color so she will not choose the same shade.

Many specialty shops feature lovely gowns appropriate for mothers’ and grandmothers’ wedding wear that can be worn again for another occasion. Shop with someone or go somewhere you can trust to help you choose a style and color that is best for you. Stores specializing in petite fashions or larger size fashions will generally have the best selections for mothers who vary from an average size. Remember to flaunt your assets and hide your flaws!

There are a wide range of gown prices and for this special day, you may want to splurge on the perfect dress.

Accessories finish your look. Shoes should be stylish, comfortable and blend with your dress. If you need special undergarments, they should be fitted by a professional.

Jewelry should be the final touch to complete your total picture.